Snap.
Crackle. Pop.
Snorkeling
in a coral reef sounds a lot like pouring milk over a morning bowl of Rice
Krispies. I never would have realized that if I hadn’t stopped to listen. And
now I find myself listening to everything: the whoosh of the wind, the creak of
the sails, the whirring of the 16th Street cabin fan, the clatter of
the anchor, the splash of the bow, the half hourly chime of the clock. And
those are only the sounds of the ship. Palmyra was rife with the sound of
birds, Fanning of children, and as we sit anchored and waiting for clearance, I
look forward to listening to the sounds of Kiritimati.
In focusing on the sounds of my
environment, I find I’m a better listener in conversation too. Where I once
constantly felt the need to one-up others, to tell the better story, to fill
the silence – never quite listening to those around me, but always thinking of
what to say next – I’ve taken on a more observant role. Rather than asking
someone how they’re doing out of social due diligence, I find myself actually
interested in the answer. Rather than inputting the sound of my own voice, a
sound I am already much acquainted with, I gravitate towards the voices of
others.
In listening, I’m learning a lot
from my shipmates. I’m learning about their personalities and individual
histories; I’m learning about their opinions and leadership approaches. In
turn, I’m more aware of the ship’s community dynamic and emotional atmosphere.
Alexis and Don the engineer enjoying a conversation at
sunrise
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Of course, life aboard the Robert
C. Seamans is a little different than the life many of us lead ashore. We don’t
have midterms to study for or bike traffic to navigate. We don’t have
appointments to schedule or office hours to attend. That’s not to say that life
aboard the ship isn’t stressful at times, but our situation does allow us to be
more in tune with the natural world around us.
So I ask, how often do you stop and
listen? How often do you listen and really pay attention to those around you,
to the world around you? While not all of us have the opportunity to sail for
five weeks on a tall ship, all of us have access to nature. So take a step
outside, close your mouth, and open your ears. There’s a whole world of sound
out there if only you stop and listen.
-Christina
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